My cousins are pissing me off?

it's really a difficult situation i mean ur cousins have no right to judge you if they don't like who you r well that's there problem not yours so once and for all you're gonna face them so stand in front of both of them and say clear and wide with a serious voice but without shouting something like that:"this is my life n i m happy with who i am i have a lot of ppl who appreciate me as i am so if you don't then it's ur problem not mine this is my style n this is who i wanna be n nothing u'll ever say can change me , u don't see me judging ur way of waisting ur life when you hear stupid song and go to silly parties where everybody is drunk .i like to take advantage of the moment to improve n not to groove as a silly between naked guys so stop pushing me to the limits cz this is my opinion n u'll never get to change it keep that in mind!!!"